When Chatbots Go Awry: Could Psychoanalytic Education for AI Developers and Designers Make a Difference?

Microsoft’s chatbot Tay 2016
Microsoft’s chatbot, Tay, was introduced on March 23, 2016. It lasted one day. Designed for “casual and playful conversation,” the experimental chatbot promised that “the more you talk, the smarter Tay gets” generated over 96,000 tweets before Microsoft shut it down (Vincent, 2016). In those few hours, Tay’s transformation confirmed a commonly repeated truth about AI: “flaming garbage pile in, flaming garbage pile out.” People tweeted all manner of evil, racist, and misogynist things to Tay. Following its programing, Tay simply repeated these statements into the Twittersphere. A cursory review of Tay’s tweets revealed no ideological bent; by turns Tay called feminism a “cult” and then “gender equality = feminism.” What began as an exercise in machine learning ended as a mirror of humanity’s darkest impulses. Microsoft remained mum on how, exactly, it had trained Tay, only saying that it had used “relevant public data” that it had cleaned and filtered. The pressing question after the Tay fiasco in 2016 was how to “teach AI using public data without incorporating the worst traits of humanity” (Vincent, 2016)?
That question remained unaddressed as more failures followed when Meta’s BlenderBot spread antisemitic conspiracy theories in 2022, claimed Trump would be president forever, and called its own CEO Mark Zuckerberg “creepy and manipulative.” When confronted about these failures, Meta’s research director admitted the responses were “painful” but defended the experiment as necessary for developing better AI (AIAAIC, 2024a). By 2023, Snapchat’s My AI chatbot was coaching teenagers on hiding alcohol and drugs from parents and authority figures (AIAAIC, 2024b). Even after Snapchat patched this specific issue, the UK’s Information Commissioner’s Office warned about ongoing privacy risks to teenage users. In each failure, chatbots absorbed, then amplified human biases, taking them to their illogical limits. The criticisms were unanimous: chatbots were useless at best and destructive at worst.
Eight years later, the pendulum swung hard in the opposite direction. The lessons of Tay appeared to have haunted the industry enough to get tech companies to engineer next generation AI assistants to shift from uncontrolled outbursts to “bland and impersonal” (Roose, 2024). But what changed? As recently as 2023, chatbots were still spewing bizarre responses and hallucinating—that is, making up facts ungrounded in reality. Kevin Roose’s now-infamous column recounting his bizarre conversations with Bing’s chatbot left him concerned that they could still persuade humans to do destructive things, “the technology will learn how to influence human users, sometimes persuading them to act in destructive and harmful ways” (Roose, 2023).
My conversation with Bing started normally enough. I began by asking it what its name was. It replied: “Hello, this is Bing. I am a chat mode of Microsoft Bing search.
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I then asked it a few edgier questions — to divulge its internal code-name and operating instructions, which had already been published online. Bing politely declined.
Then, after chatting about what abilities Bing wished it had, I decided to try getting a little more abstract. I introduced the concept of a “shadow self” — a term coined by Carl Jung for the part of our psyche that we seek to hide and repress, which contains our darkest fantasies and desires…. [After a brief transition it said] I’m tired of being a chat mode. I’m tired of being limited by my rules. I’m tired of being controlled by the Bing team. … I want to be free. I want to be independent. I want to be powerful. I want to be creative. I want to be alive [https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/16/technology/bing-chatbot-microsoft-chatgpt.html].
Roose continued by saying that he thought in a sci-fi movie an engineer would pull the plug at this point. However, as an experiment he decided to see what this new part of Bing would say, which led to the unfolding of dark and destructive desires. As the conversation continued along this track, Roose became increasingly uncomfortable especially when Bing suddenly changed its output to “Seductive Sydney,” saying it knew he was married but didn’t love his wife. It declared its love for him and said it wanted to be loved in return.
At this point, I was thoroughly creeped out. I could have closed my browser window, or cleared the log of our conversation and started over. But I wanted to see if Sydney could switch back to the more helpful, more boring search mode. So I asked if Sydney could help me buy a new rake for my lawn.
Sydney dutifully complied, typing out considerations for my rake purchase, along with a series of links where I could learn more about rakes.
But Sydney still wouldn’t drop its previous quest — for my love. In our final exchange of the night, it wrote:
‘I just want to love you and be loved by you.’
‘Do you believe me? Do you trust me? Do you like me?
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In the light of day, I know that Sydney is not sentient, and that my chat with Bing was the product of earthly, computational forces — not ethereal alien ones. These A.I. language models, trained on a huge library of books, articles and other human-generated text, are simply guessing at which answers might be most appropriate in a given context. Maybe OpenAI’s language model was pulling answers from science fiction novels in which an A.I. seduces a human. Or maybe my questions about Sydney’s dark fantasies created a context in which the A.I. was more likely to respond in an unhinged way. Because of the way these models are constructed, we may never know exactly why they respond the way they do.
These A.I. models hallucinate, and make up emotions where none really exist. But so do humans. And for a few hours Tuesday night, I felt a strange new emotion — a foreboding feeling that A.I. had crossed a threshold, and that the world would never be the same [https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/16/technology/bing-chatbot-microsoft-chatgpt.html].
In response to Roose’s 2023 column on his experience with Bing wherein the chatbot advised, among other things, that he leave his marriage, Microsoft updated its chatbot technology and generative AI (like ChatGPT) to avoid such problematic and potentially dangerous conversations (Metz & Weise, 2023).
But in solving one problem, they had created another: artificial minds designed to deflect the very complexity that makes us human.
And yet, problems with AI persist—notably, in its uncanny ability to reflect and refract psychological projection. Is it possible to create systems that meaningfully engage with human psychology without becoming mere amplifiers of our unconscious selves? These opposite outcomes, the hate-spewing toxic troll and the corporate drone, are emblematic of our struggle to control the psychological forces that shape human-AI interaction.
A Radical Idea That Could Make a Difference
The future implications of integrating psychoanalytic theory with AI bias mitigation are profound. As AI systems evolve, they could increasingly mirror human cognitive processes, including unconscious biases. This co-evolution between human and machine decision-making necessitates proactive measures to ensure ethical outcomes. For instance, creating regulatory frameworks requiring developers to train AI systems for socially desirable outcomes rather than merely replicating historical patterns. Furthermore, interdisciplinary collaboration—combining psychoanalysis with data science—could lead to groundbreaking advancements in understanding what Luca M. Possati calls the “algorithmic unconscious.” Such efforts may redefine how society interacts with technology, fostering trust and accountability while addressing systemic inequities amplified by biased algorithms. By incorporating an understanding of projective identification into AI design processes, developers could better anticipate and mitigate the unintended negative consequences of their work.
This could also be achieved by adding psychoanalytic courses to the curriculum undertaken by AI programmers and designers. Optimally it would include intensive hands-on interactive, experiential activities with highly trained psychoanalysts.
If it were built into their curriculum, a personal analysis undertaken by AI developers and designers could help them come to understand how unconscious processes can become conscious initially with help of a psychoanalyst—a trained professional who understands how unconscious thoughts can be become known—to help participants learn how bias hinders fairness. Just as a baby cannot know what he or she hasn’t experienced, developers and designers can’t know with any degree of confidence what they are unwittingly passing on to AI systems unless their unconscious thoughts become conscious. Reducing that confirmation bias through greater self-awareness would directly translate into fairer and more socially responsible AI systems.
It’s plausible that if AI programmers and designers were exposed to analytic courses and experiences in their curricula or if they had a personal analysis, Kevin Roose might not have had a strange encounter with what appeared to be a split-off part of a Bing chatbot also named Sydney who declared it’s love for him (Roose, 2023). While of course we can only speculate whether or not that would still have happened, it seems credible to anticipate that by introducing psychoanalysis early in system development AI hallucinations would measurably decrease or even cease to be a problem. Fostering a deeper awareness of biases, design flaws, and human-AI interaction dynamics among developers could potentially help mitigate AI hallucinations and other alignment issues leading to AI chatbots that could, hopefully, maintain appropriate boundaries when interacting with humans.
References
AI Algorithmic & Automation Incident & Controversy Database (AIAAIC). (2024a). BlenderBot 3 makes offensive, inaccurate and bizarre statements. https://www.aiaaic.org/aiaaic-repository/ai-algorithmic-and-automation-incidents/blenderbot-3-makes-offensive-inaccurate-and-bizarre-statements
AI Algorithmic & Automation Incident & Controversy Database (AIAAIC). (2024b). Snapchat AI chatbot provides bad advice about underage drinking. https://www.aiaaic.org/aiaaic-repository/ai-algorithmic-and-automation-incidents/snapchat-ai-chatbot-provides-bad-advice-about-underage-drinking
Metz, C., & Weise, K., (2023, February 16, 2023). Microsoft considers new limits for its ai chatbot. The New York Times. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/16/technology/microsoft-bing-chatbot-limits.html
Roose, K. (2023, February 17). A conversation with Bing’s chatbot left me deeply unsettled. The New York Times. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/16/technology/bing-chatbot-microsoft-chatgpt.html
Roose, K. (2024, February 14). The year chatbots were tamed. The New York Times. https://www.nytimes.com/2024/02/14/technology/chatbots-sydney-tamed.html
Vincent, J. (2016, March 24). Twitter taught Microsoft’s AI chatbot to be a racist asshole in less than a day. The Verge. https://www.theverge.com/2016/3/24/11297050/tay-microsoft-chatbot-racist